Keeping a marriage strong requires a lot of effort. We’re constantly exposed to stories of Hollywood couples breaking up, which only fuels the belief that lasting love is rare. Are happy endings that hard to achieve nowadays?
Because of this stigma, it’s challenging for individuals with special needs to get married. Many people think that those with Down syndrome can’t take care of themselves, so how could they possibly raise a family?
They were the first couple with Down syndrome to get married in the United Kingdom. When they exchanged vows in an Essex church two decades ago, their relationship faced skepticism and opposition.
Despite the challenges, their love led to marriage as two individuals with Down syndrome. Many believed their relationship was doomed from the start, but they proved their love could withstand the odds. The couple, who marked 22 years of marriage in 2017, celebrated their wedding anniversary that year.
Maryanne and Tommy were together for 18 months in 1991 before Tommy proposed. Their achievement of 22 years of marriage garnered admiration and respect from millions on social media.
During their anniversary celebration, the couple recreated their first dance from Dirty Dancing. Even with a large crowd watching, they danced as if they were alone in the room.
“My wedding was the most joyful day of my life. I was surprised when Tommy proposed, but I didn’t hesitate to say yes,” Maryanne told Independent.co.uk.
“Tommy and I never fight. I love my husband deeply. He’s my best friend,” she added.
Maryanne’s family lives just down the street, making it easy for them to assist with any tasks that her sister, Lindi Newman, may need help with.
The couple’s bond grew stronger, reaffirming that getting married was the right decision for them. Throughout this time, they were grateful for the support of family and friends, especially Maryanne’s mother, who was steadfast in her belief in their plans.
There was significant criticism about allowing them to marry, but Maryanne’s mother was convinced it was their choice to make.
“Maryanne had dreamed of having a big white wedding since she was a child, and that’s exactly what she got. It was a beautiful day,” her sister explained when discussing why their mom supported the marriage.
Ms. Newman highlighted that the couple’s relationship is an inspiring example.
“When they walk down the street holding hands, they send a positive message. Some people stare, assuming that individuals with Down syndrome and learning difficulties can’t get married. But we also receive many heartwarming messages from those inspired by their story,” she said.
“Parents and grandparents who worry about their children or grandchildren with Down syndrome find hope in Maryanne and Tommy’s story, hope that their loved ones can also find love and happiness,” she added.
Maryanne’s sister manages a Facebook page for the couple, serving as a visual diary of their life together, filled with touching photos capturing their romantic moments. One of the posts shows them visiting an aquarium and an Elvis Presley museum.
Countless people are sending their best wishes and congratulations.
Witness Tommy and Maryanne’s heartwarming love story and renew your belief that love can conquer all.
